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A community for polyamorous, non-monogamous, and kink-curious people who want more than advice — they want to actually understand themselves in relationships.
A community for polyamorous, non-monogamous, ethically monogamous and kinky people who want more than advice — they want to actually understand themselves in relationships.
Founding prices won't last. Price increases when tiers launch.
Sign up before June 1st, 2026 and gain immediate access to The PAWS Method for free!
SOUND FAMILIAR?
You've read the books. You've been to therapy. You know how to communicate — in theory. But something keeps happening in your relationships that you can't explain, and you're tired of being the one who tries hardest to figure it out.
"I don't know if I'm asking for too much or too little."
"We talk, and talk, and talk… and nothing actually changes."
"I can't tell if it's a red flag or just my own trigger."
"I want to love ethically — but I don't know what that looks like in practice."
"I'm exploring non-monogamy and feel completely alone in it."
You're not broken. You're not asking for the wrong things. You're just trying to navigate something genuinely complex — without the community or framework to do it.
THE SHIFT
This isn't about becoming a different person. It's about finally having the tools, language, and support to show up the way you already want to.
Confused about your own reactions
Anxious before hard conversations
Unsure what you actually need
Feeling like the "difficult" one
Navigating this alone
Clear on your patterns and needs
Grounded when things get hard
Able to ask for what you want
Boundaries without guilt
A room full of people who get it
Most importantly: you feel safe, seen, and intentional in how you love.
WHAT'S INSIDE
THIS MONTH'S WORKBOOK
One free workbook every month — practical, grounded tools you can actually use. Yours the moment you join.
Ongoing discussions, empathy, and real support from people who actually understand your relationship style.
All recorded livestreams
Full library of sessions — not available anywhere else. Watch at your own pace, revisit what you need.
Be first in the room. Members get access before anyone else.
Who's behind this
This isn't a content creator doing a rebrand. This is someone who has spent years at the intersection of therapy, lived experience, and community — and built something that actually moves people.
Across both of my accounts
Si te duele, ahí no es: Una guía para personas monógamas y poliamorosas que quieren amar éticamente
Why this is different
Most communities give you content. Or advice. Or a group chat. This one gives you something rarer: an ethical framework for relationships — that actually applies to how you live.
Not just tips. A way of relating built on agency, consent, honesty, and responsibility.
Monogamy, polyamory, kink. You don't have to choose a lane to belong here.
Theory + lived experience
Therapist background. Real life. Both — which is rare, and it shows.
Not an add-on. The community itself is how change happens.
Join now
Founding member pricing is available now — and it will go up when tiers launch. This is the lowest you'll ever pay to be part of this.