The PolyKink Therapist

Tools and resources

Workbooks

  • $6.99

10 common mistakes in relationship agreements (and how to prevent them)

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Most relationship conflicts don’t come from lack of love—but from poorly built agreements. In this guide, you’ll discover the 10 most common mistakes people make when creating agreements (and how to fix them), so you can stop repeating the same patterns and start building clarity, accountability, and connection in your relationships.

  • $8.99

Workbook: From Scarcity to Choice: Rethinking Love and Relationships

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Are you choosing your relationships… or following patterns shaped by fear and expectations? This guided workbook helps you break free from the relationship escalator, challenge scarcity beliefs about love, and build intentional relationships through reflection exercises and partner conversations. Be the first to know when it drops!

  • $6.99

Workbook: Jealousy

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Quick intervention tool Stop fighting jealousy and start understanding it. This guided workbook helps you identify the emotions and needs behind jealousy, recognize triggers, build safety, and communicate clearly using Nonviolent Communication. Practical exercises for monogamous and non-monogamous relationships alike.

Toolboxes

  • $19

Toolbox: The Ethical Relationships Framework

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A practical toolbox to help you build relationships without control, coercion, or fear. Learn the difference between rules, agreements, and boundaries — and how to use agency, consent, honesty, and compassion as your foundation. Includes guided exercises, real-life examples, and reflection questions to help you communicate clearly and protect your needs without restricting your partner’s freedom.

Webinars

  • $49

Ethical, clear and effective agreements

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  • Webinar
  • Apr 22 at 1:00 AM UTC

You’re not bad at communication—you just never created real agreements. In this webinar, you’ll learn how to stop guessing, express what you actually need, and build clear, mutual agreements that reduce conflict and resentment. A practical system to move from assumptions to intentional, secure relationships.

  • $59

Repair: Why Your Fights Don’t End (and How to Actually Fix Them)

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  • Webinar
  • Jun 4 at 12:00 AM UTC

You don’t need fewer fights—you need better ways to come back from them. In this training, you’ll learn how repair actually works and why it often fails, then practice it in real-time. If you’ve ever said “I know what to do, I just can’t do it in the moment,” this is for you. Includes live webinar and access to the recording.

  • Starting at $4.99/mo or $49/yr

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A community for ethical relationships, kink-aware communication, and secure attachment tools.